Yes, it's an important question, but perhaps there are more important questions. Let me explain...
I'm Bob Brown, the founder of Brown & Associates, Inc., based in Orlando, Florida. I've been a private investigator for over 30 years.
I also specialize in Christian-based marriage counseling. With approximately half of our cases being domestic, I estimate that 30% of these couples have survived their troubles after counseling. When appropriate, our efforts go beyond the immediate investigation as we offer spiritual guidance to couples interested in reconciliation. To get people back together, that's the ultimate satisfaction.
So you see, the real question is whether your spouse is cheating or not, do you want to save your marriage or have you already given up. Of course the first step is to determine if your spouse is really having an affair. I've put together a free guide to help you with this question - Tell Tale Signs of a Cheating Mate
I've been dubbed "The Investigator of Faith" by a Florida newspaper, and my appearances in print media have been numerous. I've appeared on shows such as Maury Povich and Oprah, as well as Inside Edition, Hard Copy, and A Closer Look, as well as innumerable local television and radio shows.
"The Snake and the Spider", a book by Karen Kingsbury, is based on a case I investigated involving the murder of two young boys in Daytona Beach. I also inspired the screenplay of this story ("My Son Is Missing") which is currently in preproduction as a full length feature film.
I tell you all this not to brag, but so that you'll know I speak from experience.
At first the discovery of an affair will shock you. Then you'll feel anger and numbness. No matter how you choose to react, you may find that you are suddenly lost due to being caught off guard. You never thought this would happen to you. So when it does, what should you do when this painful truth is revealed?